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Showing posts with label Celebrity Perks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Celebrity Perks. Show all posts

Tuesday, 24 May 2011

When it's out it's OUT! Super-injunction Madness

(Written before RG was 'named'- but still relevant)

I think I have a new found respect for Arnold Schwarzenegger despite not being to keen on his actions regarding his affair(s), love child(ren) and subsequently not telling his wife; at least now it’s ‘out’ in the open (not sure if its all out) he is not hiding behind a super injunction like the latest celebrity to be caught out for foul play.

I mean at what point do you just hold your hands up and say ok it’s me, your right I cheated with such and such and then actually start to deal with the consequences both publicly (as you are in the public eye) and also privately.

Is it at the point were your named by a top TV presenter? At the point were your name is trending on twitter? At the point were your Wikipedia has been updated to state you are suing twitter? the point when your face has been plastered on a national newspaper with the word censored across your eyes? Or when the PM says I know who it is or when MP John Hemming names you in the commons?

…Somebody say when!

By trying to get the courts to enforce the super injunction he has actually made the situation a lot worse and opening himself up to some serious questions regarding his character, not based on the fact that he cheated but on how he has dealt with it in the aftermath.

On twitter he has been called some choice names with some people goading him to sue them and also in speaking in my own circle the terms arrogant, conceited and egotistical have been banded around…after all it takes a real a**-hole to try and sue the people who put you on your pedestal in the first place.

Let’s cast our mind back to a few months ago when Selina so eloquently discussed Wayne Rooney and his run in with the press over his cheating with prossies: The BDSS: Men, women and prostitutes. Fast forward a few months he and Coleen are still together. He rid the media derision and now he is back where he belongs playing football and moving forward.

In contrast Mr foul play with his super injunction looks like it will go on forever and what probably would have been fodder for the papers for one week has turned into something else the battle between freedom of speech (for twitter users) freedom of press (for the media) and freedom of privacy (for cheating celebrities).

Now in all honesty before this whole thing on twitter not only did I not check for this person (as I’m not into football) but I also had no idea who Imogen Thomas even was and pretty much thanks to this person’s actions (and Imogen’s rounds on Morning TV sofa’s) I'm now enlightened.

I must admit whilst watching the Andrew Marr show on Sunday when one of the panellists said these super injunctions are put in place often times to protect the children,  for a moment I thought ok fair enough… but then again the secret is OUT! Imogen is getting more shine and his name and reputation are being tarnished with everyday he instructs his lawyers to uphold this super injunction and sue everybody, I'm sure he's not really an a**-hole.

As I said earlier I have a new found respect for Arnold Schwarzenegger at least he is out in public and getting on with his life. This is despite not having a pre-nup and his wife reportedly hiring a top divorce lawyer which basically means…HALF! *Eddie Murphy*

By all means whilst I definitely don’t have a right, or even care that much about what goes on in the private lives of celebrities (I have my own house to deal with!) but when it’s out its OUT (Whether I believe it or not  that is another story).

So BDSS’ers what do you make of the whole saga? Does he have a right to privacy? When does that right end?

Sunday, 5 September 2010

As Whitney famously said Crack is Wack! (unless...)

If you have read Bi's post on can men and women really be just friends? (by the way I´m a none believer)! then you will know that reference was made to someone being offered drugs in quite a humorous way (check it out here: The BDSS: Can men and women really be just friends? its seriously funny)! … However here at BDSS we appreciate that drug addiction is not so much fun!
So last night whilst trying to get to sleep I felt a little uneasy like...  I hope no one thinks the BDSS endorses drug taking! (we don´t, which is why Bi never saw her "friend" again)! Which then got me thinking about Whitney's Crack is Wack statement.

Now being someone who has never taken any sort of hard drug or illegal substance in my life, I totally agree with Whitney on this one , Crack (and any other addictive drug which causes dependency) is Wack!

… And I tend to blame all these drug taking celebrities (those singers, models & 'it' people) out there who may make people think otherwise and perpetuate the myth that taking drugs is somehow a good thing (I´m a non believer on this one too)!

Now don't get me wrong I love to enjoy myself and possibly party like a rock star as much as the next person... but the thing that stops me from the crossing the line (into drug experimentation) is the reality that ...I´M NOT A CELEBRITY …In fact, I'm just plain old Si! *sigh* …and when I think about how plain and irrelevant I am to this world... I imagine there would be some major differences in the consequence of drug addiction for me vs a relevant celebrity…

…So I've devised a list of the potential drawbacks for me on drugs vs the potential benefits or perks even of being a drug addled celebrity! I know your probably thinking perks? … What perks? …you better read on... 

1) Drugs ruin relationships and tear families apart… now imagine me hooked on drugs and the devastating effect  it's likely to have on my relationships…I'm least likely to gain new friends and the ones I already have would not want to remain friends (this applies to family too!) because I'm guessing I would not be very good company whilst high on drugs or coming off a drug high...
 ...now compare this to a drug taking celebrity…they probably gain a lot more fans/followers (ok, maybe not genuine friends, but a gain is a gain right?) with every drug scandal newspaper headline printed! ... which leads me to conclude...

...Drug taking benefits score: Celebrity: 1 - Si: 0

2) Drug addiction costs a lot… now imagine me spending all my money, time and energy chasing the high of a particular drug and worst case scenario I lose my family, friends, employment and roof over my head as a result of drug addiction… well I reckon I  would be quite seriously screwed! And if I had no money, family or friends (except maybe the BDSS!) well I think that would be just the worst!…

... now compare this to a celebrity who could probably make a few thousand pounds off a ... 'My Drugs Hell' news story!... (I mean whose gonna pay for my story?) … again I conclude...

...Drug taking benefits: Celebrity: 1 - Si: 0

3) Drug addiction is a hard habit to kick… now imagine me hitting rock bottom and wanting to get off the drugs… who, or what is gonna help me kick my habit? Bearing in mind my addiction has probably worn the patience of my family and friends … who the hell is gonna help me? No one that's probably who! …
... now again compare this to a celebrity who probably has a manager or PA, (or some over assistant)! on speed dial who could promptly  book them into The Priory for "exhaustion!" or some other celebrity rehab unit… me I got to go through my GP!  … and so…

...Drug taking: Celebrity: 1 - Si: 0

4) Drugs ruin your body both inside and out… now imagine me looking … (and I hate to say it) like a crackhead! I mean we have all seen people on drugs (maybe a family member, friend or just passing someone in the street) and the affects that drugs take on the appearance…let alone the health issues (constipation or open sores anyone?) …
... now compare this to a celebrity drug taker who most likely has a makeup artist, a hairdresser and a stylist well... It just don't seem fair they stay looking half decent, whilst I will probably just look like a down and out crackhead! … again…

…score: Celebrity: 1 - Si: 0

Not to forget the numerous celebrity´s who make frequent court appearances for drug related offenses who get off SCOTT FREE! (with their loophole lawyers)!… If that was plain old Si up in court every minute… I guarantee I would be given THE BOOK!…(i.e., Holloway prison)! ...

…CELEBRITY: 1 -  Si: - 0!!

Now I´m not great at maths but the above equals 5-0 in favour of celebrities! Meaning ... CRACK (and other drugs) is WACK! (especially for us normal people)!

So my normal people lets experiment... (not with drugs silly remember what Whitney said!) can you think of any other celebrity perks vs normal people drawbacks of drug addiction?
...go on... have a dabble in comments...