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Showing posts with label Grown and Sexy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grown and Sexy. Show all posts

Tuesday, 10 August 2010

Although he got a young back, he don't know about that real stroke... and other benefits of growing old!

Thank you Brian McKnight for those words of wisdom! I agree with that sentiment...although being young is good, certain things only come with age!

...And as me and Selly are turning 29 next month, I thought I'd list some of the good things that have come to me with growing older.

First, as I have gotten older I have grown more comfortable and confident in myself. I no longer stress out about things I have no control over and just enjoy my life...misery don´t like my company no more, fact! lol

Second, I no longer need someone else to complete me and I have slowly but surely grown content in my own self... (I`m giving myself a hug right now!).

Another thing that has come with age is that when I go raving I don't have to be in the tightest or shortest dress or the highest heels to feel sexy because I feel sexy in my own skin. Plus sexiness is all in the mind and I can still be sexy in tracksuit pants trust! (and no I don´t wear track pants to the club!), you see because I´m grown I don´t really go clubbing anymore...

Also as I have gotten older my relationships have become more stable, less confusing and more fulfilling, and right now I love being in a grown folks relationship dealing with grown folk issues in a grown folk way (thank you Selly for that quote!), meaning although we might argue and get on each others nerves... we don´t throw in the towel and break up ... we thrash things out, we discuss, agree, compromise and sometimes even agree to disagree! (how mature are we?).

I can only think of a few random examples at the moment, I would try and think of more but I´m tried and my back is aching!

...Please feel free to begin were I have left off and tell me more good things that have come to you with age... (besides wisdom, grace and better stroking technique!)