Ladies this sh*t is getting serious out here lol! Make sure you ask the questions.....Do you have a girlfriend, are you married etc.
Honestly, I do think that the opposite sex, although they know how their fellow mandem (male friends) operate, they like to go on like we women are exagerating and completely irrational when it comes to our tendancy to believe that the majority of men cheat.
But you know a lot of the time this assumption comes from experiences. For example, you might have been cheated on in a previous relationship, and obviously the same can be true for men also because don't get me wrong, women cheat too.
But just to educate you guys so you're aware, it's not always just some irrational thought processes going through our heads. I've just compiled a quick list of reasons other than the film waiting to exhale, the cheating celebrities: Tiger Woods, Arnie, and Wayne Rooney etc, and the above that we think this:
1) Firstly, a lot of women (and I include myself in this) will have grown up with a male in their family, be it their own father, an uncle, brother or cousin who always has a harem of women around them and I'm not talking harem pants here (lol okay so that joke was rubbish but you know what I'm saying!); they have a conveyor belt of women. Occasionally with multiple women giving birth around the same time!
2) Every woman has at least one male friend who can give them the 411 (info) on what you guys get up to, they are just like your female friends but a male version you talk about most things with, cheating included. You disclose indiscretions with each other so we know you guys are more than capable.
3) We get approached by married men quite a bit, trying to arrange to take us out.....I guess the idea is to slowly turn us into a mistress. Don't mention the wife and kids until after some point when you can't hide them any longer!
This last point was the catalyst for the post. After going on a night out, giving this seemingly unattached male my BB pin (he asked and seemed harmless enough), we talked over the weekend and provisionally arranging a first date, one of my friends lightheartedly said to me "shall I get you the info on this person" so I said yes why not, not really thinking much of it (now don't worry, I didn't get someone to illegally gather all his personal information - that's not my thing, BDSS don't get down like that lol). She simply asked a friend of hers, who happened to be a friend of hi,s a few questions. So the 411 report came back:
He is married with a child just over a year old (but he may have been seperated from his wife I hear you cry!!!!......umm NO!!) When I brought it to his attention that I was aware of his family therefore no longer interested, he came with an excuse about how he tried to fight his feelings but that he just couldn't make a man forget his wife and child (clearly my dance-moves and BB banter is on point lol!....I can give you lessons - kidding!!) Clearly this man was willing to take another woman out behind his wife's back and not make me aware he had a wife.
Fine, fine, so not all men cheat just quite a few of you do, but the proof is in the numerous married men who try and date me!
Can you think of any other reasons BDSS'ers? What are your thoughts? Comment, share!
