Firstly I have been directed by BDSS:Debs to highlight the BDSS’s disdain for the X Factor.
Now although I missed last nights results show Debs has informed me that it was a choice between F.Y.D & Katie Waissel (or as I like to call her Weasel! lol)
Debs assured me that if it was based on performance alone then F.Y.D had it hands down, but as we all know the show is fixed and so the Weasel lives on to sing another day! and if your still in denial that its a fix, check this out:http://www.anorak.co.uk/256750/tv/how-the-x-factor-and-sony-bmg-fixed-it-for-katie-waissel-aka-katie-vogel.html
So anyways back to today’s topic; when it hurts so bad, as Tina Turner famously sang who needs a heart when a heart can be broken - and badly at that!
I don’t know about you but I definitely remember the first time I got my heart broken, the first time I realized that sometimes men are crap! lol
It came as a complete shock, a bolt of the blue to find out the person I loved, the one I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with was sleeping with or had slept with someone else and at the time I faced what I thought was a big dilemma...
Should I continue on with the relationship because I love him or should I end the relationship because well ... I hate him! (I think there’s a very thin line between love and hate).
I mean I really struggled with accepting that maybe he was not marriage material (the signs where there all along, but I choose to ignore them!) and gradually I grew to resent, despise and hate this person because well ... I do hold grudges! lol
But I realise that that is just me, and that there are people out there who even after infidelity are willing to ride that surfboard until wipe out!
So with that being said BDSS I want to know how? How when you feel you have been hurt so bad do you move forward? Or are you like me do you hold grudges!?
All hints, tips & tricks will be greatly appreciated…
