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Showing posts with label personality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personality. Show all posts

Tuesday, 26 October 2010

Ugly women vs Pretty women

I was reading an article the other day, that was asking the question, of whether pretty women have less desirable personality traits, compared to less attractive women (disclaimer: obviously attractiveness is subjective).

It discussed the idea that pretty women did not have to make as much of an effort to be or to come across as personable, while less pretty women have to go all out (including in the bedroom!) In order to compete or perhaps to compensate for a lack of gorgeous looks.

Along with the article I also watched the recently released, Queen latifah film called "do wright" which centred around two women and one man.

One pretty with a less than great personality and one less attractive (according to the film!) Queen latifah being the less attractive of the two physically but in personality she was wonderful.

Still she didn't immediately get together with the love interest in the film (Common...love him!), although she won him round in the end. After he was dumped by the prettier woman.

Also in addition to the above film and article, I have had conversations where people have sworn off pretty women/good looking men due to negative experiences with them.

Myself personally I've never correlated a persons personality with their looks....so I can't say that I have noticed any connection.

But as its addressed in the film, in my conversations with others and in other articles, I'm thinking that their might be some truth in it.

So in your experience bdss'ers have you ever felt this? Do you see this happening? Are prettier women much more stuck up and stooch compared to less attractive women?

Is the same true for men?

And is it solely down to looks?