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Wednesday 13 October 2010

Warning! ... He May Have Three Wives...

Continuing with the cheating theme lets go one further and talk bigamy!

The lady in the article below married three men and for five years managed to keep it secret from all her husbands!



Now my first thought when reading the article was what kind of mind would even think to do such a thing? I also wondered if these men had some sort of screw loose that would explain five years of not knowing!


I mean there must have been some clues, but for some reason it took a missing persons report and the discovery of marriage certificates to uncover the truth!


So to save anyone else the bother of going through such a palaver, I using some quotes from the article in order to highlight the red flags her husbands clearly missed; in the hope of saving one of you, our BDSS readers from discovering your significant other has two extra wives or another husband down the road!


Here goes…


1) `To explain her long absences she said she was working nights as a nurse or was having treatment in hospital for cancer, and forbade them from visiting her’


If after 5 years you can’t surprise visit him/her at home, at work or you can only see them at specific times and places with no variation or spontaneity what so ever! Well clearly they have another life with another partner that comes first; and especially if they come up with really ridiculous excuses such as, ´my parrot gets nervous around strangers´ … Red Flag No. 1!


2) ´They married in November 2004 at the Gretna Green Register Office, dragging two strangers off the street to act as witnesses.´


If after 5 years you have not met the significant people in their life …well my mother always said that if a man/women really likes you they will not hesitate to introduce you too their family; and the same goes for their friends too! So if after five years you have not met their mother (and she is not dead!)… Red Flag No. 2!


3) ´I never saw her at Christmas.´


If five years into your relationship you have never spent a Christmas or bank holiday weekend together …ever! Or you’re excluded from their birthday celebrations (like their 50th!) Well its likely they are spending their special day with someone else who they feel are equally as special and if its not you it is … Red Flag No. 3!


4) ´Husband number three, joiner Martin Wright, 54, took out a mortgage to buy a £52,000 home for them. They went on trips together, but astonishingly she spent only two nights over four years at their house’.


I mean it speaks for itself!


… So BDSS you have been warned! But can you think of any other red flags that your significant other may have two wives or husbands...

3 comments:

  1. I read this article and I just found myself wondering how someone could juggle more than one partner. One is more than enough for me lol!

    But in all seriousness I think that the Husbands or non-husbands were really hurt when it all came out so they have my sympathy!

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  2. She got played... i don't what to say, think the signs where coming through at some poit loud and clear, sometimes we choose to ignore them hoping they will go away. I feel sorry for her because that must be hard to deal with

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  3. Madeformakeup are you saying you feel sorry for the women who married the three men?

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